We believe God ordained the family as the foundational institution of human society. It is composed of persons related to one another by marriage, blood, or adoption. We believe that marriage is the uniting of one man and one woman in covenant commitment for a lifetime. It is God's beautiful gift to show the union that exists between Christ and His church, and to provide for the man and woman in marriage the framework for intimate companionship. We also believe, as the Bible teaches, that children are a blessing and heritage from the Lord, from the moment of conception. Therefore, parents are to teach their children spiritual and moral values and to lead them, through consistent lifestyle example and loving instruction, how to personally know and follow Christ, and make choices based on biblical truth. (Read Gen 1:26-28; 2:18-25; Exo 20:12,14; Deut 6:4-9; Psa 127; 128; 139:13-16; Prov 1:8; 5:15-20; 6:20-22; 13:24 14:1; 22:6,15; 23:13-14; 31:10-31; Eccl 4:9-12; Mal 2:14-16; Matt 5:31-32; 18:2-5; 19:3-9; Mark 10:6-12; Rom 1:18-32; 1Cor 7:1-16; Eph 5:21-33; 6:1-4; Col 3:18-21; 1Tim 5:8,14; Titus 2:3-5; 1Pet 3:1-7)
The Basics: An elder is a man who (i) meets the qualifications in 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1:6-9, (ii) is recognized by his congregation as an elder, (iii) and leads the congregation by teaching the Word (1 Tim. 3:2), praying for the sheep (Jas. 5:14), and overseeing the affairs of the church (1 Pet. 5:2).
Oversight: An elder must watch over the flock. He must instruct all the sheep, strengthen the weak ones, guard the vulnerable ones, rebuke the obstinate ones, and bear with the difficult ones (2 Tim. 2:24-25; Acts 20:28; 1 Thess. 5:14). An elder watches over the members of his church as one who will give an account to God (Heb. 13:17)
Plurality: In the New Testament, local churches consistently have a plurality of elders (Acts 14:23, 20:17; Phil. 1:1; 1 Tim. 5:17; Jas. 5:14). Christ, the Chief Shepherd, means to care for his flock through a number of godly men who together teach, guard, guide, protect, and love the sheep. This means that every local church, following the leadership of their pastor, should look out for men who are already doing the work of an elder and appoint them to the office.